In today's digital world, texting is a major part of dating. Yet many well-intentioned singles unknowingly make texting faux pas that derail potential connections. Let's identify the most common texting missteps so you can put your best virtual foot forward.

Mistake #1: The Generic Opener

First impressions matter, even in text form. Avoid:

• "Hey" or "Hi": Lack of effort makes you blend into the crowd.
• Overly Formal Openings: "Hello [Name], how was your day?" can feel stuffy.

Instead:

• Comment on Their Profile/Photo: "Love that hiking pic, where was that?"
• Reference a Shared Interest: "Did you see the [band/sports team] game last night?"

Mistake #2: Interview Mode

Bombarding someone with questions can feel draining.

Instead:

• Mix Questions and Statements: Weave in comments related to their answers.
• Share About Yourself: Conversations are a two-way street!

Mistake #3: The Vanishing Act

Slow replies or disappearing for days shows a lack of interest.

Instead:

• Be Generally Responsive: Even if busy, a "Can't chat now, but thinking about you!" goes a long way.
• Explain Long Delays: Life happens, but a quick explanation shows consideration.

Mistake #4: Overly Eager Vibes

Coming on too strong can be a turnoff. Avoid:

• Excessive Compliments: Early on, sincerity beats flattery.
• "Good morning" AND "Good night" Texts Every Day: Can feel clingy, let it flow naturally.
• Premature declarations of feelings: Let things build organically.

Mistake #5: The Text Wall

Giant blocks of text are overwhelming.

Instead:

• Break Up Long Thoughts: Into shorter, multiple texts for readability.
• Use Paragraphs: Especially if expressing something heartfelt.

Bonus Tip: Don't Overanalyze

It's easy to overthink their replies. If interested, they'll engage. Don't get discouraged by the occasional short response.

References

• How To Text Someone You Like: 
• Texting Etiquette and Mistakes to Avoid 

Remember: Texting is a tool to build a connection, not a replacement for real-life interactions. Focus on having fun, engaging conversations, and ultimately moving towards meeting in person!

Let me know if you'd like any of these mistakes explored in more detail!